▌Don’t be bored and deserted by a friend who lives in the United States, LINE: "What should I do? I’m so bored that I can’t go anywhere. My family has never been so clean, I’ve been scrubbed by all means. My work has stopped due to the epidemic. I stayed at home all day, just like a prisoner!" I replied, "Someone is in charge of the supervisor, and I can write a book. What do you call me? Find something to do by yourself!" The two completely different situations are "death after death" and "death without boredom". The former dies life, and the latter dies spirit. The former makes people sad, while the latter makes people helpless. Most of the deaths will not happen to the elderly, right? Human society has never been fair. People who have been exhausted to death have no words in their lives, and it is also a myth to say the word "boring" to them.
And "Bored Is Deadly Bored" is what the young man shouts, and the boredom of the old man is "unprecedented and unscrupulous". A friend is over 60 years old and her mother-in-law is in her 80s. Apart from high blood pressure and poor knee walking, this old man sits on a chair all day long and doesn't look shy about anything. The common saying is "boredom".
I heard from a friend that the old lady was very skillful when she was young, and she would tidy up her hair and tidy up her hair. She would learn all kinds of flowers at once. Gradually, these have been eliminated by the times. The old man feels useless and will feel disappointed in his heart!
Many people will use their "kung fu" to others to appreciate or use, thinking that is the "value" of kung fu. In fact, when I get old, I think the most important thing is to take advantage of myself. When she gets old, she is the most important thing. Canadian female writer Alice, who won the Nobel prize at the age of 82. Alice Munro said: "There is nothing to be afraid of in this world. Just treat yourself well." This "being well" must include all the physical and mental spirits.
Young people call boredom intermittently. Life is following them, and they cannot be bored all the time. If you get bored when you get old, it is a terrible poison, which invades your heart slightly. Because I have too much freedom and too much time, and there is nothing to follow them to do, I will get older and gradually get there. I like to read books and paintings, and no one asks me for it. You don't rush or ask for anything all day long.
▌Play fun and handicraft, do it and finish it will satisfyIsabe, a female writer who grew up in Chile. Isabel Allende said: "It's not about art spirit now, but about not dying early and boring." In a sentence, you can play art, not for exhibitions or sales.
I am playing by myself and am learning how to "pour" the acrylic material into a picture, and the results are unexpectedly interesting. A few days ago, the children sent a photo of the apricot yellow autumn leaves. The colors were very bright. The children said they had some work on their mobile phones. As soon as I learned, I immediately went to the nearby pool to take photos and process them. Sure enough, the water in the pool became more blue, the grass was green, and the sky was bright and bright. The children praised it: "Mom has learned so quickly!"
If the skilled old lady could play with ancient paper art and paste the finished product on a big notebook, she might become a treasure for the family after several years, and she would have to be skilled. In fact, many elderly people have skills. A friend gave me a handmade fish, which was colorful and had a bright look, making me extremely beautiful. But what is "useful"? Only the person who received it was happy (it is not guaranteed that everyone liked it), but doing it and completing it would be a satisfying thing for her, and the process of doing it would kill a lot of boring time. Another friend also gave me a can of homemade tender ginger, wow! I have never eaten such tender ginger, one by one, like yellow jade fingers, and I can't chew a little bit of residue. Think about the process of doing it, it must be complicated. She always dresses fresh and elegantly, and has a bright and beautiful makeup. There is time to have in my old age. Those who are willing to do it will use a lot of time to make them bored and not infringe on themselves, including cleaning up themselves beautifully, and if you are satisfied with it, you will not be bored. These little things that seem boring kill the boredom in life.
American writer Yamor. In the book "A Gentleman in Moscow", Toros wrote a Russian old man who was instigated to a hotel to work as a leader by the October Revolution, but he did a great job because he said, "Boredness is one of the hardships of the elderly!"
※ This article is excerpted from "At the Ninety, Dance Continue to the Endpoint: Mrs. Vivi’s Happy Old Age of Self-Reading"."Stand upright at the 90th, continue to dance to the end point: Mrs. Weiwei's happy old age"
Author: Le Zhu Jun (Mrs. Weiwei)
Publisher: Life in the World
Publication date: 2022/03/30
