A friend complained about his ex-wife:
『Since we got married, she has always been in charge of money. Although she is a bit strong and domineering, she has not hurt me overall, so I have never thought about anything from her. I will pay her every month after paying her.
But, something that happened afterwards made me disappointed with her.
Once, after I was paid, I happened to have a sick and hospitalized. Because I was in a hurry to use my money, I took the salary to my mother for treatment without having time to say hello to her.
As a result, when she found out, the first sentence she said to me was, “What are you willing to give money to your mother for treatment? Why are you just spending money without my permission? ”
I was confused by her question at that time, my brain shorted for a while, and I kept thinking about &ldquo: "What's the matter &rdquo". During this process, she kept pointing at me with an aggressive temperament. Finally, I suddenly realized that I had to spend money in time without any worries about the major events that human life was in charge of. I couldn't ignore my mother when she was seriously ill and hospitalized. There was no need for me to say hello to her at all. After
, she kept insisting on her, and forced my mother to lie on the hospital bed to pay for the money. I divorced her directly. Such a woman really can't be kept. It's simply said that she has no conscience. 』
A reader complained about her experience yesterday, which is very similar to the experience of the friend above. The person without a conscience is not her, but her ex-husband. Let's take a look at what happened between them.
Teacher Dong Lin:I have experienced something extremely painful and I have never told anyone else. Today I heard a friend who had the same experience as me, which once again aroused my worries. I want to tell you that it doesn’t matter if you can’t see it. I may feel better if I say it.
The person I want to say is my ex-husband, a very young person, a person without a conscience, who is so selfish that he doesn't care about his mother's life or death.
After we got married, I soon discovered that he was very stingy with people around him, and ate with friends, never buying orders, and always said that he was worth nothing under various excuses.
When my father asked him to borrow money, he said he didn't, and clearly reminded me not to secretly give money to my family.
He organized a good speech to his gaze, "Our money belongs only to us. Others can spend money on us, but we don't spend money on anyone. To you and I come, everyone else is outsiders!" ”
I didn't think too much at that time, and I thought it would be good to live in his way. But soon I realized that it wasn't that true, and I overestimated him.
One day he said he was going to work overtime, and I was the only one at home. When I was about to go to bed, my father-in-law called and said that his mother-in-law was seriously ill and was hospitalized. He said that he had no money in his hand, so he asked me to take the money to help him.
I didn't have time to think too much at that time, but only knew that it was a matter of life that was a matter of life, so I hurried to the hospital with my money. In fact, during this process, my father-in-law first contacted my ex-husband, but he refused to say "I'm working overtime" so that my father-in-law called me.
I didn't have time to ask so much. When I arrived at the hospital, I gave my father-in-law the money. I waited for my mother-in-law to do the surgery, and sent a message to my ex-husband, so that he could come to the hospital after get off work.
As a result, he came, but when he knew that I was giving money to my father-in-law, he was furious and got angry when he got angry at me, &ldquo: Why are you worried about using money to treat my mother? Have you greeted me? Have you ever allowed me? Have you forgotten what I told you? ”
At that time, I only knew that there was something wrong with him, but I couldn't remember where I came from for a while. It was not until I got home that I fell asleep. When I recalled what happened in the hospital, I realized:
, what should I consider? The one who was seriously ill was hospitalized and was my mother-in-law. How could I see if I die and don’t save me? Any child with a little conscience should do it like me, and he actually got angry with me because I spent money to treat his mother, which really disappointed me.
I thought if I didn't pursue the next day, the smoke would disappear. But he was fine, and he kept me for three days. By the fourth day, I couldn't bear it anymore and divorced him. Such a person who doesn’t want to care about his mother’s life or death, what can I expect? If I don't divorce, I'm afraid one day I'll have to wait to die.
It is better to leave him early if you don’t have common sense or conscience!The people mentioned in the above two cases, don't say that they are two parties, and they will not be able to bear it if they change to any normal person..
The elderly at home need money when they are sick. They are not a deep hatred with their parents. The first time they use money to cure their illness and save people is the matter of conscience and common sense. People who cannot do such things are not worthy of being human or children. What good days can you live with them!
Don't say that the two above parties are asked "What do you want to give your mother money to treat the disease"”“ What do you want to give my mother money to treat the disease” you will be confused. Any normal person, a person with a conscience, will be confused when suddenly being asked about this problem, because this is a problem that is not to be asked at all, and there is no "What do you want to complain about" at all.
For others, if your partner is also a person who has no conscience, or even a little bit of common knowledge, you should divorce him as early as possible. They are so stingy and cruel to their parents, and they will definitely not be much better for you. Just like the woman behind said, if you don't leave him, one day when you are at the verge of life and death, and he will see if he doesn't save him, then you can only wait for death.
This article is reproduced from Donglin Xiting Public No.