As the Chinese New Year is coming, many people will pack red bags to their bosses and relatives. A netizen is worried about whether to pack red bags to his aunt. His aunt has no marriage and children, and has no job. She usually lives with her grandparents and grandparents and takes care of them. However, the original Po didn't want to pack red bags to his aunt. If she wanted to pack, she would give them every year, but if she didn't pack, she would be considered a stingy, so she wanted to ask everyone's thoughts.
A netizen posted on Dcard's "Mood Board" that she was quite worried about the New Year's red bag should not be given to her aunt. Her aunt herself has no marriage and children and has no job. She is about 60 years old. She usually takes care of her grandparents and lives with them. When she was a child, she received the red bag from her aunt for several years. At that time, she still had a job, but later she didn't receive the original po again after she didn't work.
Now that the original Po moved abroad to get married, he had never returned to Taiwan for the New Year due to the epidemic, but this year he would go back to Taiwan for the New Year, his mother asked her to make red bags to her aunt, thanking her for taking care of her grandparents and grandparents, and her brothers and sisters and relatives' children. This is what they said when they grew up and wanted to do this late, for fear that they would not take care of her later. The original Po was stunned when he heard it, "Ha? You don't have to agree with the person who overpaid the money?"
Yuanpo said that although her aunt was not very good to her when she was a child, she did not bother her and the situation was average, but she still didn't want to give her red bag. When she got married, her aunt gave her 10,000 yuan, but her father and mother took her to pay for the meal. "I didn't get it either." She thought that her grandpa's house had been confirmed to be given to her, so it was her responsibility to take care of them. If she really wanted to give it, she would have to pay it every year in the future.
Original po believed that this kind of thing was either 0 or 1, and it was also a piece of money afterwards. However, if you don’t have it, you will be considered very young and couldn’t help but exclaim, “I just want to save money and spend it on the edge of the knife, otherwise it would be nice to add code to grandpa, grandma, father or brotherly children,” which caused heated discussions among many netizens.
Netizen said it was unreasonable, "Thank you, your father, for your father's care, your parents, and your aunt, take care of your father's parents! And my aunt should take care of your parents," "I love and blackmail you, tell your mother the red bags you have," "Hello, tell your mother the red bags you have, and then move the same amount from the red bags you have," "Tell me, face is for you, you have to take them, and I will help you."
However, some netizens think it is understandable, "When you get married, your aunt will give you 10,000 yuan, but your father will take it to pay for the meal, but isn't this your marriage? Or isn't it used on you?", "I think it's hard work, is it okay to have a couple of thousand yuan for a favor?", "My aunt has no job and is willing to take care of her. Even if you get married, she will give you 10,000 yuan. No matter how the money is used in the future, it cannot change the fact that she has made."
Some netizens suggested that you buy gifts, "Since brothers and sisters have bags, you don't want to pack them, you can consider buying some things that he may need without buying too much. Anyway, he is just a person. Doing this not only means that you have made a money, but you can also control the money to the number you want, or give him some things you think are good at home, and it is also good to provide you with reference!!"