If you stop quarreling and no longer mention divorce, you are fine? The person who is dead can t help but tells you, "He is going to leave long ago."

The news about the divorce of the artist Xiao Tiantian (Zhang Keyun) and her husband Mr. Song (Song Han) have become the focus of the media. In fact, before the domestic violence incident broke out, Xiao Tiantian kept mentioning divorce. The two words "Divorce" seem to be the key word for many people to express their inadequate marriage. When the other party quarrels, they still have a balance of recovery at the beginning. If one party gets tired in the end and quarrels, it is the real police report. The following 5 images are something you can observe and think about.

After the artist Xiao Tiantian (Zhang Keyun) and her husband Mr. Song (Song Han) broke out in domestic violence, they have applied for a protection order to file for divorce. The incident has been a media focus because of a "glowing" member of the two-person friend and a member of the "artistic rise and fall" of the two-person church.

The desire to divorce is actually true. Before the domestic violence broke out, Xiao Tiantian kept mentioning divorce. Mr. Song said that when Xiao Tiantian was pregnant, she always said she wanted to divorce for a very young thing, which made him feel that Xiao Tiantian was engaging in marriage and divorce. In the past, Tiantian often mentioned that she wanted to divorce when sharing her marriage life. At that time, the outside world thought it was for the performance of the program.

The two words "distance" seem to be the keywords that many people express when they are not satisfied with their marriage, or perhaps they are talking about it when they are quarreling with each other, or perhaps they are mentioning it when they are complaining to their friends. After all, there is nothing that can prove your dissatisfaction better than "suspending" relationship between two people. Some people are extremely shocked when they hear that their partner mentioned "divorce" for the first time and cannot control themselves for a long time. Perhaps the weight of these two words will make many people learn from their mistakes and actively seek the way to change.

When you start to divorce, it is mostly a warning. The "distance" you said at the beginning is indeed a warning. The other party is telling you, "I am very dissatisfied with this situation", "I cannot accept this situation", "Our relative pattern is instability", and few people mention "distance" for the first time, which means that they are determined to do it, and usually just hope that the other party will correctly observe the seriousness of the problem.

Because of this, most people do not understand the true meaning of the other party mentioning "divorce" and will regard it as a habit, because they shout like this every time, and they have not really divorced, and they will make up after the quarrel. After a long time, when I finally heard the words "distance" and often I didn't react too much, I just thought it was "coming again", which was not the same thing.

But in fact, your unresponsiveness or slander may have cured the final separation between the two. One day, he will really not love you at all, without any affection, and will come to talk to you about divorce with you with a little decisiveness.

When the other party quarreled, there was still a balance of recovery at the beginning. If the two people's disputes could not be adjusted, the other party would be tired in the end and quarreled, which was the real warning. The difficulty of trying to recover at this time would be too high. The following signs are something you can observe and think about.

No longer angry with you, you find that he is no longer angry about what you would have made him angry with before. He seems to have no expectations for you, and he has no doubts about what you want to do. At first you felt so free, and you felt that the relationship between the two was now comfortable, but I didn’t know that he had “release” you.

No longer want to master your story. I would ask questions in the past. I want to know where you are and what you are doing. If I haven’t had your message for too long, and if I haven’t received your call, he will be discomfort and will be anxious to find you. But now he doesn't want to care where you go and no longer calls you. He was very cold when he talked about anything. He used to have a question about the two of them. He seemed to be no longer interested. If you ask him a question, he would answer with a handsome answer. When answering, he didn't even look up at you. Sometimes he seemed to have never heard of it.

I think he is very busy, but I don't know what he is busy with. His friends' gatherings have increased, but I no longer invite you to participate. After get off work, he always arranges his own activities, relax, exercise or study. He is very fulfilling, but it has nothing to do with you. When it comes to work, he is busy, and he is busy. In the past, he would tell you what his work content is. You know what his partner is busy in the dark. No matter what it is, whether it is a project, a project, or an event, you can see what he is doing when he hears his complaints. But now, he is still busy, but you don't know exactly what he is busy with.

It is very rejecting that your body contact is not easy to judge for couples with children, because after having children, sexual intercourse will be reduced. But the key to judgment is not the number of times, but the feeling, and you will feel that the other party is rejected. Even without sex, he is very repulsive about hugging and kissing, and you will feel like you are forcing him.

No expectations, no harm, and ultimately, if the above phenomenon has appeared, then you are on the road to divorce. If the other party finds that I am the same without you, even better than having you, then this relationship will only make him feel that "it's tasteless and it's not a pity to abandon it."

Although no one wants to argue, and no one encourages the word "divorce" to express dissatisfaction, judging from the fact that "you still want to argue", the other party still has the desire to change your mind. If you can face the dispute carefully and think about how the two parties can improve it, even incomprehensible, but if you make the other party feel that you have the sincerity to change, in fact, the marriage will not reach a certain level of divorce.

When love is gone, you can save it when quarrels. This faint sorrow is the result of expecting the other party to change and failing countless times.