Since ancient times, the relationship between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law has been the biggest topic of many women after marriage. A female netizen posted a message saying that she had started getting married recently. One day, she was asked by her mother-in-law to have a meal and was told "the daughter-in-law will never become a daughter." This made her very surprised and could not understand the intention of her mother-in-law saying this? And ask how everyone is with her mother-in-law? The article has attracted a large number of netizens to discuss and teach the teachings and rules of being with mother-in-law.
A mother-in-law told that "daughter-in-law will never become a daughter."A female netizen posted on dcad that she had been dating with her fiancé for four years and had recently started to make an appointment. One time, she was asked by her future parents-in-law to eat at home and wanted to discuss many of their requirements for the wedding time and gift venue. Yuan Po said that he is actually a person who doesn’t plan much about what to do when a wedding, so he has no opinions on the requirements of his parents-in-law, just a point of laughing. As a result, halfway through the discussion, the mother-in-law suddenly put her hands on her waist and stood up and said very seriously: "To me, the daughter-in-law is the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law is the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law will never become a daughter."
After hearing the original po heard it, he felt inexplicable and wondered what he was doing. He was wrong. He was not sure what he was doing. Did he say something wrong? Why did mother-in-law say this? What is the purpose of her saying this? Do you want to warn me! She also said that she was actually a little difficult in her heart. Although she didn’t really want to be her mother-in-law’s daughter, she just thought that her mother-in-law had given up on Ma Wei before marriage. How did she get along with her strong mother-in-law if she asked everyone for help?
was exposed, which caused great revelations from netizens, saying that the mother-in-law will not be a mother. "I told her very seriously, "To me, my mother-in-law is my mother-in-law, and my mother is my mother. My mother will never become a mother." ", "In the future, what did my mother-in-law ask you to do, remember to tell her, "Mother-in-law is my mother-in-law, I only respect my mother! Go find your daughter." "Reply to her: I know, I will never treat my mother-in-law as a mother. Then I will respect each other as much as I do, and don't offend you." "She is just telling her that she will not treat you kindly! Because she said the sneer first."
There are also netizens asking, are the teammates’ husbands fucking at this time? "You said you wouldn't treat him as a mother, so please rest assured. But was your husband fucking at that time?", "Honey, disappeared?", "Honey's reaction was very bad, run away!", "Honey don't dare to reply! After all, the classic lyrics will appear in the reply, "If you have a wife, don't want a mother?", "I suggest you discuss with your fiancé again later, and I'm curious about his thoughts."
Some netizens suggest the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, "Just treat mother-in-law as a customer to run, and give gifts during the three sessions and keep a distance." There are also enthusiastic netizens who teach the strong mother-in-law's teaching rules and say that it is only time to prepare for marriage. If the following 3 points cannot be done, I suggest you still run away quickly. First: Never live together, don’t live too close to each other, don’t use your in-laws’ resources, relying on yourself is the most practical thing. Second: Husband should be honest, don’t tell you everything your mother-in-law says, and understand that you don’t like and don’t want to do it and go straight to him and go back. Third: Just respect your mother-in-law and don’t look forward to it.
In the face of the difficult problems of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, lawyer Liu Qiuyuan once shared his professional suggestions on his face. Remind the aunts who are preparing to be "good mother-in-law" to 10 must-have mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's relationship guides.
1. Please do not persist in living with your son and your daughter-in-law, it is best to take them out. Even if they can only rent a house, that's their business. The remote distance beauty ensures that your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a good relationship.2. Don’t treat your daughter-in-law as a daughter, just treat her as your son’s wife or your friend, that’s fine. You can treat your son as a minor forever, but please treat your daughter-in-law as equal respect. If you tell her, she will remember her. In this world, only her mother can control her, and her mother is not you.
3. The bad habits of your daughter-in-law buying things, watching Korean dramas, slimming mobile phones, not washing clothes and cooking, having bad health, not tidying up the house, not being able to take children, etc., are all none of your affairs, that is between your son and her, and your son's affairs do not care about you. He is really an adult.
4. If you live together, please respect each other. Don't touch the things of their couple, don't help them wash clothes and cook, don't help them bring their children. Unless your daughter-in-law asks you and you are willing to help you, just take it into consideration. Handle their affairs yourself and don't bother you.
5. The couple quarreled, please wear it and didn't hear it. Do you want your mother-in-law to intervene when you have a quarrel with your husband? If you don't want it, would it be strange if you intervene now? When my son complained, he said that his wife was kind to me and immediately forgot. As for complaining between daughter-in-law and wife, I'll give you a few more sentences to your son.
6.Shouzi's father is your son and daughter-in-law, not your husband and you. It is not ideal to teach each other in another. They should take care of their children as much as possible, especially not to teach their children's rights. No matter how they don't take it, they will suffer the consequences.
7. There is no need for a daughter-in-law to be filial to you. The one who should be filial to you is a son. Please train your son and become a decent man to help you get along with your daughter-in-law. The good things your daughter-in-law treats you must always keep in mind. You must forget the good things you treat your daughter-in-law treats you immediately.
8. Please do not come when your son discusses divorce in court. This will make him look like a mother, and you can't enter the tutoring room and court, so you can only be anxious outside..
9. Plan your retirement life more and don’t focus on your children. Even if your life is half over, there are still many interesting new things to learn. It is your mission to make your old age more brilliant. Please spend all your property before you die, and don’t let it become a property.
10.Sako is not from your family, but his father's baby. Please recite it automatically three times.
Jun Qiutian also reminded at the end: It is not easy to be a good mother, but it is very simple to be a good mother-in-law. A simple word is: "Look at but not see, listen to but not listen." You can pay more attention to your life, not your son and daughter-in-law. I believe your life will be better. To be honest, Sun Fu is his own, and it is important to take care of yourself.